Full Course Description
Breakthrough Results with Difficult Men: Terry Real on Working with Narcissists, Bullies, Boy-Men and Avoidants
Program Information
Objectives
- Differentiate Relational Life Therapy from traditional couple therapy approaches.
- Characterize the four primary styles of male dysfunction in couple relationships.
- Prioritize adjunctive interventions when one partner is damaged by prior trauma.
- Demonstrate each partner’s stance into their family of origin, working with childhood trauma in front of one another.
- Effectively communicate treatment goals and necessary therapeutic steps to couples.
- Discover how to have the confidence to trust your own intuition and training in a session with a couple.
- Conceptualize traditional toxic masculinity and methods to counteract intergenerational transmission.
- Prescribe concrete behavioral instructions to improve couple relationships and parenting skills
- Identify the systemic dynamic, the repeating vicious circle, couples become stuck in.
- Discriminate between the three types of narcissism and choose appropriate strategies of intervention.
- Recognize each partner’s self-defeating stance (angry pursuer) and their contribution to the dynamic between them.
- Anticipate negative reactions in therapy and structure responses that reinforce and compel engagement.
- Use a psycho-educational approach to intimacy and precisely unearthing and prescribing what right would look like.
- Categorize the parts of wounded child, adaptive child and functional adult and organize appropriate approaches to each.
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11/04/2019
Module 2: Jerome & Cindy, An Abusive Bully Faces His Own Trauma
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28/11/2018
Module 3: Tom & Ann, A Shaming Dad Discovers a New Way to Parent
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28/11/2018
Module 4: Bill & Staci, A Selfish Boy-Man Gets a Lesson in Empathy
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28/11/2018
Module 5: Tim & Marty, An Avoidant Man Learns to Show Up
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28/11/2018
BONUS: Gender Roles in Marriage: How They've Changed
OBJECTIVES
- Explain why polarity and sexual tension are essential to the health of romantic relationships.
OUTLINE
- Explain why polarity and sexual tension are essential to the health of romantic relationships.
- Exciting sex naturally involves a good amount of dominance, submission, and power
- Women like men who do manly things, although they don’t want to be oppressed by it
- Polarity emphasizes clear definitions of what it means to be a man and a woman, in line with predominant social constructions
- “Soft” men are usually seen as less desirable; many women prefer a natural aggressiveness in sexual matters
- Identify the three phases Terry says are necessary for women to get what they want out of relationships with men.
- Daring to rock the boat: being upfront and confrontational about your needs and desires
- Helping him out: teaching your partner how to be your partner
- Making it worth his while: reducing complaining and giving positive reinforcement and encouragement
- Describe three ways in which Millennials have reinterpreted gender roles.
- Millennials are especially gender progressive
- Millennial women aren’t pushing for a worthwhile career, they expect a worthwhile career
- Millennial men are more comfortable performing tasks traditionally allotted for women, such as raising children and doing housework
- Millennial men are more expressive and emotional, attributes traditionally associated with women
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29/07/2014